unhealthyrelationships

The High Cost of Waiting for Things to Change

Last year, a man named “Ryan” sat across from me on Zoom — eyes down, shoulders heavy — like a man who had been carrying the weight of his entire household on his back. He told me something I’ve heard countless times over the last fourteen years: “I’m not in love with my wife anymore. […]

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Affairs, Regret, and the Truth Beneath It All

Michael sat on the edge of his office chair, elbows on his knees, hands locked like he was bracing for a punch. He didn’t seem like a man acting on impulse. He seemed like someone who had been carrying something for far too long. “I know how this looks,” he said, eyes fixed on the

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Yes, Men Can Be Victims Too: The Silent Struggle with Abuse!

A man came to me recently after enduring months of physical abuse from his wife. She had slapped him across the face during arguments, broke a wooden hanger over his arm, and even hurled an empty wine bottle at him. On the night she threw the wine bottle,  fearing it would escalate further, he reluctantly

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Signs you are emotionally dependent on your spouse!

When “Paul” was describing his marriage to me, his eyes began to tear up as he described the constant arguing, criticism, and disparaging of his character while in the presence of his young children. His wife “Michelle” seemed to seek out any opportunities she could find to judge, criticize, and blame him for anything. Sadly,

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