My Process


Divorce is devasting and for men there NOT exactly fair! From child support to alimony and everything you have worked hard for; the process is not in your favor. You are in unfamiliar territory and trust me when I say divorce is not just a legal process; it is a major life transition. I will help you to prepare for divorce, sounds silly but not preparing for a divorce is worse! I will help you think through your many options and guide you to making a calm, clear and confident decision that is all your own.  As the only female divorce coach for men, I know how women think, and I use this to your advantage and mine.


When going through this “emotional rollercoaster” people are not functioning at their best due to feelings of frustration, anger, stress, sadness, and feeling overwhelmed. These feelings and emotions affect a persons’ ability to make prudent decisions for themselves and their children. I will be your “thinking” partner and help you manage your strong divorce emotions and bring forth more critical thinking.


 I will empower you through this journey each step of the way. I will listen to you without judgment. I will not get worn out by your story, the drama or any of the emotions that seem to swirl around you all the time. I can provide you with tools, strategies, and techniques that will help you to navigate your divorce with confidence and emotional control.


We will create clarity around your values, intentions, and goals of your divorce. There are many facets to a divorce, and I will be your support system on many areas whether it’s shared custody, co-parenting, moving forward with your “new normal” with your children, coping with the highly charged emotions you’re most likely experiencing and much more.

Next, we will define and detail an action plan that will inspire you to continually move forward towards a future that you are excited and happy to live.  I’ll encourage you, challenge you, and hold you accountable. As your Divorce Coach, I will be by your side each step of the way. Our work together will give you the tools to regain your strength and confidence on your pathway forward.


  1. Pick a time & schedule on my calendar.
  2. You will receive an email to confirm your appointment. Once confirmed, you will receive a Zoom link closer to the time of your consultation.
  3. I will listen without judgment while keeping it conversational and confidential.
  4. I will tell you how I may help you or if I don’t think my services are for you.

    If we decide to work together, we will meet once a week for 1-hr. via Zoom or phone sessions. We will be communicating throughout the week, with my check-ins either by text or email, whichever, you prefer.

    As part of my unique service, I also offer ongoing support off-hours to ensure that you have the support you need for a successful transition to your new life during and after your divorce.

    Wherever you are in the process, I have professional resources to assist you. This is essential for ensuring that you feel supported and have expert advice when needed.

Take the first step in moving forward through the divorce process with encouragement, guidance and support, by booking your 1-hr. discovery call with Hayley. Click here to book your call.