MEET HAYLEY
I remember what it felt like to face decisions during my divorce that could shape the rest of my life while still trying to manage each day. That experience informs my work: helping men find their footing when familiar routines, relationships, and plans become uncertain.
That experience led me to use my education and professional background to help men develop practical strategies for navigating separation and divorce. For over a decade, I have supported clients through the decisions, difficult conversations, and emotional challenges that accompany that process.
The pressure to end the conflict can lead men to accept terms they have not fully considered. With their finances, future, and time with their children at stake, fear and exhaustion can make it difficult to separate immediate relief from long-term priorities. I help men clarify what matters most, prepare for difficult conversations, and work more effectively with their attorneys. Together, we examine where compromise supports their goals and where they may be conceding simply to bring the conflict to an end.
My background includes studies in psychology and counseling, certification in divorce coaching, and two years of study and training in Nonviolent Communication. This training informs how I help clients navigate conflict and communicate more effectively. In 2014 and 2015, I was honored with nominations for the Woman of Influence Award for my work in the community.
Experience with Law Enforcement and Military Clients
My practice has a particular focus on supporting men in law enforcement and the military, whose professional responsibilities can make an already difficult family transition more complicated. Shift work, changing assignments, and demanding schedules can affect parenting arrangements and the time available to address divorce-related concerns. I help these clients plan around those realities, identify issues to discuss with their attorneys, and approach communication with their co-parent more deliberately. Breaking overwhelming concerns into manageable decisions and next steps helps reduce stress and gives them a clearer sense of what to address first.
For agencies and organizations, divorce coaching offers practical support for personnel managing family upheaval alongside their professional responsibilities. My work complements the services of attorneys and licensed therapists by helping men organize concerns, follow through on next steps, and respond to conflict with less reactivity. I offer individual sessions virtually and welcome inquiries about contracted services. For organizational inquiries, please email: thedivorcecoachformen@gmail.com
