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How to navigate the holidays during your divorce!

Co-Parenting, Communicating with co-parent, communicating with ex-spouse, Custody, Divorce, Healing from divorce, Single fathers

Despite the circumstances, divorce remains one of the most traumatic events you can experience in your adult life. The psychological impact of divorce may leave you anticipating a holiday season filled with emotional challenges. Many clients express concerns about the potential stress associated with spending the holidays with their ex-spouse, which could involve excessive drinking, […]

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12 divorced Men Share Their Best Advice!

Co-Parenting, communicating with ex-spouse, Divorce, divorce & money, Divorce Coaching, Divorce Coaching For Men, high conflict divorce, mediation, Single fathers, support for men divorce

During consultations, most men will ask me if it’s possible to come up with a “game plan” for their upcoming divorce. I have always found that during stressful times, having a plan of action with goals, tends to give individuals more peace and less stress. In fact, with the right planning, not only will it

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WHY YOU MAY NEED A TEMPORARY PARENTING PLAN!

Co-Parenting, communicating with ex-spouse, Custody, Divorce, divorce & money, Divorce Coaching For Men, False Allegations, high conflict divorce, Parental Alienation, Single fathers

When you and your spouse have decided to divorce, emotions tend to take control of how individuals behave. You may have the best intentions of being amicable and fair, especially when it comes to dividing your time with your children. Recently, I had a client who was under the impression both he and his wife

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I WANT TO LEAVE MY SEXLESS MARRIAGE!

communicating with ex-spouse, Divorce, divorce & money, Divorce Coaching, Divorce Coaching For Men, Marriage, sexless marriage, Single fathers, support for men divorce

So often when doing consultations with men, they will share with me they are in a sexless marriage which has led them down the path of seeking a divorce. After explaining how they were not experiencing the occasional dry spell, many of them had gone several years without being intimate with their wives. As hard

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WHEN COMMUNICATION WITH A TOXIC EX HAS FAILED!

Co-Parenting, communicating with ex-spouse, Divorce, Divorce Coaching, high conflict divorce, Narcissists, Single fathers

Oftentimes, I have clients who have shared custody with their ex, yet due to various reasons, cannot communicate with them. Just recently, a client explained how for months he tried to communicate with his ex-wife, to no avail. She rarely returned his calls or emails. When his children were sick and went to the doctor,

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BEING A GOOD FATHER DESPITE HAVING A BAD ONE YOURSELF!

Co-Parenting, communicating with ex-spouse, Custody, Divorce, Single fathers, support for men divorce

A few weeks ago, I had a consultation with a gentleman who reached out to me for help to both navigate his divorce and improve his co-parenting relationship with his wife. His parenting concerns were a bit unusual. As we discussed his fears, he did not know if he would be a good father due

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CUSTODIAL vs. NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT; A SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY FOR FATHERS?

Co-Parenting, communicating with ex-spouse, Custody, Divorce, Divorce Coaching, Divorce Coaching For Men, False Allegations, high conflict divorce, Parental Alienation, Single fathers

I want you to think about this; when we put labels on parents such as “custodial” and “non-custodial” would you agree that we are creating a winner and a loser? I think it’s also safe to say we are also an image in the mind of the child, such as “my dad lost in the

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File first or come out last!

Co-Parenting, Divorce, divorce & money, Divorce Coaching, Divorce Coaching For Men, high conflict divorce, Single fathers, support for men divorce

You’ve made the decision that your marriage is not going to work. You brought up the topic of divorce and hoping to go about this amicably.  However, she didn’t respond, or you couldn’t agree to the terms. Your gut is telling you this is going to be a divorce war. Now what? I’m asked many

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