Reacting to your ex-wife isn’t usually the best move; responding is a much better choice. We’ll look deeper into the differences between the two, but first, let’s take this scenario as an example: The next few days are your allotted time with your child. As you’re rushing out the door to pick her up from …
Recently, a client phoned me in a state of panic. His wife tripped over the family dog and scraped her nose and cheek. She was intoxicated and began to yell at the dog which prompted my client to go downstairs and see what all the commotion was about. Slurring her words, she told him what …
How to predict & protect yourself from false allegations during a divorce. Read More »
After working with men for over the years I’ve realized that no matter how hard they work at being wonderful single fathers, there are myths that surround them, and they don’t seem to cease. I want to shed light on the 3 biggest myths about single dads with the hope of helping someone out there …
Let me paint you a picture. One evening, a husband and wife are arguing about their impending divorce, while their kids are upstairs crying. The wife is yelling that he will never see his kids again and she’s keeping the house. His reaction? He yells back at her saying that she is toxic and out …
If you have been dealing with a narcissistic spouse, you may have finally reached your breaking point. The decision of a divorce may come as a relief from continuing to endure the problems you have been having with your spouse. Keep in mind that divorcing a narcissistic wife will be challenging, and as I say …
Unless you are faced with serious issues such as domestic violence, substance abuse, or an emotionally unstable ex, co-parenting is the best way to ensure both parents maintain a close relationship while making their children’s needs a priority. Sounds good in theory, but let’s be honest, seeing your ex regularly along with not being with …
5 tips to successfully co-parent with your ex-wife! Read More »
The stigma previously associated with people who seek help during a divorce is slowly but surely dissolving. It may have previously been seen as weak, but as far as the vast majority of people are concerned, this is no longer the case. Now, we recognize the fact that asking for help when we need it …
men hurt too; asking for help is an act of bravery! Read More »
5 Tips for men to protect their ASSets while going through a divorce Divorce can be a one-two sucker punch. First comes the emotional pain, and then the financial reality of what you are about to lose and spend on your divorce. It’s time to get your ducks in a row with your finances. I …
Let’s be honest right now. How many times have you met a father who went through a divorce and wound up with the short end of the stick? He’s paying out the wazoo in monthly child support just so his ex-wife can “shop, dine & entertain” as if there has been no change in her …
If you are ignoring the narcissist, then it is more than likely for a very good reason. You are not ignoring them for attention or playing their ghosting games, as they may do, for fun. You are ignoring them because of some hurt they have inflicted upon you. And they know when they have hurt …