Sometimes, an act of infidelity can lead to a prompt and bitter breakup. Other times, couples just gradually drift apart and eventually realize they’re better off separated. Many couples waver back and forth when thinking about divorce and consider several different factors. Ideally, this decision would be clear-cut, but reality is much more ambiguous. Divorce […]
WHETHER OR NOT TO RECONCILE WITH YOUR EX Read More »
You’ve heard it time and time again, a man’s wife has filed for divorce and now wants him to move out of the family home. I’m willing to bet that if you were to ask several men what happened immediately following their wife filing for divorce, I’m sure they would agree with my statement. Why
FILED & EXILED; YOUR WIFE FILES FOR DIVORCE & NOW KICKS YOU OUT OF YOUR HOME! Read More »
A few weeks ago, a new client “Bill” had reached out to me regarding his impending divorce. He explained how this was something his wife wanted and was going to pursue, even though he did not want this. In fact, up until when she broke the news to him, he was under the impression that
MY WIFE WANTS A DIVORCE AND I DON’T! Read More »
So often when doing consultations with men, they will share with me they are in a sexless marriage which has led them down the path of seeking a divorce. After explaining how they were not experiencing the occasional dry spell, many of them had gone several years without being intimate with their wives. As hard
I WANT TO LEAVE MY SEXLESS MARRIAGE! Read More »
Throughout most of my marriage, I had contemplated a divorce. All the warning signs were there, however, I would make excuses of why I should stay and in the interim, sacrifice my happiness. Then one day, I had my “aha” moment and realized I had the strength to go down this path and take a
DIVORCE: Taking a leap of faith! Read More »
A few months ago, my client “Tom” phoned me to discuss how his meeting with his soon-to-be ex-wife went. She had phoned him numerous times and each time laying a guilt trip on him. What was ironic is that she had filed for divorce yet was relentless in getting him to feel guilty about the
guilt can lead to bad decisions in your divorce! Read More »
You’ve made the decision that your marriage is not going to work. You brought up the topic of divorce and hoping to go about this amicably. However, she didn’t respond, or you couldn’t agree to the terms. Your gut is telling you this is going to be a divorce war. Now what? I’m asked many
File first or come out last! Read More »
Last year, my client Greg (not his real name) was facing what seemed like an uphill battle. He had finished medical school a few years before getting married. Both Greg and his wife worked while he attended medical school. His wife was working many more hours each week. Fast forward a few years and Greg
YOUR DEGREE MAY BECOME MARITAL PROPERTY IN YOUR DIVORCE. Read More »
5 Tips for men to protect their ASSets while going through a divorce Divorce can be a one-two sucker punch. First comes the emotional pain, and then the financial reality of what you are about to lose and spend on your divorce. It’s time to get your ducks in a row with your finances. I
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