How to emotionally divorce your ex-spouse!

Once your divorce settlement is final, you know where everything of value that you acquired during your marriage has gone. But what about the intangibles, like the love and emotional bonds you shared with another person? Where do they go?

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5 signs your divorce has become high-conflict

You tried everything possible to make your divorce go smoothly. Both you and your attorney made every attempt to diffuse the scenario and offer incredibly fair settlement offers. Every “olive branch” you gave was met with more anger, resentment, and

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Reaction vs. Response: Which is better?

Reacting to your ex-wife isn’t usually the best move; responding is a much better choice. We’ll look deeper into the differences between the two, but first, let’s take this scenario as an example: The next few days are your allotted

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When your child has a toxic parent

It’s hard enough going through your divorce with your high conflict spouse, but now you’ve entered the frustrating and emotional phase of trying to co-parent with them and lessen those effects on your children. As an adult, we have a

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PARENTAL ALIENATION: THE NEW EPIDEMIC!

During the past 12 years, I have witnessed Parental Alienation Syndrome occur more than ever lately.  Sadly, it has become an epidemic! Many of my clients assume this will never happen to them, however, too often this is not the

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THE 5 BIGGEST MYTHS ABOUT SINGLE DADS

After working with men for over the years I’ve realized that no matter how hard they work at being wonderful single fathers, there are myths that surround them, and they don’t seem to cease. I want to shed light on

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WHO IS TRULY THE AGGRESSOR?

Let me paint you a picture. One evening, a husband and wife are arguing about their impending divorce, while their kids are upstairs crying. The wife is yelling that he will never see his kids again and she’s keeping the

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